The uncertainty about whether he has ever cheated on me is what makes me think I should leave. Plus my husband told me that he was going to go get gas before he comes home from work the other day, and my husband hasnt used his car since then. Here are 4 expert-approved actions to take when your man has cheated. I really resented the idea that she seemed to be placing herself of great importance and was really his Number One Girl and I was some kind of consolation prize. So go F yourself.. 3 third times a charm right. If he does it more then once leave his ass. It has never healed right. The very first couple of weeks that we were together. A year now and 3 months. ive tried talking to one of his exes but he got super mad and blocked her from anything and everything but he still talks to her. Yet however she probably thinks Im cheating on her because she read rubbish like this.. so sad so sad this world looks for too much advice and is too gullible when they receive and never question what is presented to them instead of theorizing and attempting to figure out things first hand. That he wasnt happy etc. I feel so jittery right now at the pit of my stomach and my hands get cold thinking about it. Like it was stated above, lying is worse he exactly did that but I just couldnt deal with his lying towards me. I let it go on. This is where men and women differ, her idea of dealing with it is not the same as a mans idea, hence escorts etc! I went through his phone bill and found 2 numbers that he texted so often it was not funny. Always trust your gut feeling. Sometimes I think it comes down to self-respect. So this time i did snoop. Whether your husband was caught cheating years ago or only yesterday, it can still cut you like a knife to the heart. So hard because you wonder how much is made up in your head due to paranoia and if any of it has any truth in it? My gut says he is still after her. Thats how bad it was. I held him because it hurt more to see him broken and more devasted than me because well Ive been cheated on before you know. I encourage you to get help. I HAVE NIGHTMARES OF IT ALL..but because I dont know the truth they are only assumptions. I asked her if he would be willing to do counseling. I believe most women genetically have a strong ability to remain with one lover for life with out question. Research from the University of Guelph shows that people with sexual performance anxiety are more likely to cheat on their partners. So needless to say I took him back but this time set rules for myself. He told me that when he went there he drank with her and her friendn became drunk. The Holy Spirit will reveal all things. Am I an idiot for staying with him? Life is short, it is not worth to keep forgiving a repeat offender.there is no point to continue caring for and loving someone who just dont value you. Otherwise, youre going to have to play detective. Really? I know the pain is deep when we lose trust in our husbands. He always says he loves me and would never dream of cheating, and is just the sweetest guy.. but lately, he finds excuses to get away from the house, I found lube in his car, then just today, I see that he left for work without his ring on. We were young and stupid and I thought we had grown since, but I am worried he is cheating again. You know he doesnt love you.hes told you that. He said this girls relatives were there and they spoke for 15 minutes or so. You can often find solid families forming friendships with other solid families; this is one of the major reasons why America became such a wealthy, powerful nation, because a community is stronger if it has more people with good values. You need to understand that you deserve better and cut your losses before you are 30 years, 3 kids and 3 grandkids in. WOW its like the devil destroy marriages including mine of 28yrs . NOW iam a very happy person in very healthy, happy, protective relationship. About me. May you find renewed strength and energy, and may nurture the most important relationship in your life: the one you have with YOU. He likes to run to my family and say cam doing everything wrong i dont have enough sex with him.. Lol sorry i just cant. I must tell you, if want any chance at a happy life DUMP THAT MAN! You do say he takes long drives but he might just need to get away from you if you two are arguing or you are giving him a hard time. Let me know how it goes.I hope youre misreading his behaviorbut your instincts will lead you to the truth. I am 24. My family says i should get a divorce and i am now thinking the same thing. This last chance, Im not sure whether it is work or not. Now, I just keep a diary to document his behavior. I can say that you know the answer to the question on whether he was faithful or not on your honeymoon. What made it worse is he called me psychotic and said I had mental problems and I started to believe it. A teacher? ( son saw her coming out of the hotel room-claims his son was drunk so he is mistaken) I asked him to explain the pictures he said she was alone and he probable felt bad and chatted with herThe pictures depicted look like they were a couple////lies bother me, the truth would be so much easier to deal withhow do I get the truth? They say nothing happens, but the actions and lack of sex and emotions says it all! about 6 months of visits I got pregnant with our first child. I found pictures of another woman and her son hidden. Your philosophy makes sense. And is always accusing me of messing around. For quite some time, I looked the other way and stuffed those feelings and it made me more and more sick. Then someone told me things just dont pop up like that in any search field. so months and months go by and before i know it and realize it has been a year already and nothing has changed so i start telling him he either need to choose who he wants to be with me or her and he swears up and down that they dont have sex they dont even sleep in the same bed that he sleeps in his kids bed or in his chair i didnt belive him then one night he tells me that she is pregnant 8 months pregnant and we should call things off and of course dumbass me said no it has been this long we can get through this if u really love me so now 2 months later she has their 3rd kid little did i know that was going to make it harder for him to leave because he kept swearing to me that after she had the baby she was getting a place of her own. He acted as if he took up for her. Im thinking about leaving. Marriage success is build on trust. He said she bought a car from him and the car broke down. MY HUSBAND IS LESS ROMANTICE HE PULLS AWAY FROM ME WE ARE CONSTANLY ARGUING AND FIGHTING WE DONT HAVE ANYTHING PHYSICAL ANY MORE WELL AT LEAST NOT AS MUCH AS WE US TO I LOVE HIM BUT I FEEL LIKE HES CHEATING I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO HELP PLEASE. Trust your gut instincts, even though the answer might be painful. I care for him a lot hence reason I gave him a second chance and chance and chance and he never change all he did he change the young girls, co-worker or anyone he can find.. The only thing you can do is take it one day at a time, and listen to your gut instincts. Men lie plain and simple my husband and I have not even been married a full month I have caught him red handed LYING about a few things. You would look me directly in the face with loving eyes and tell me that it was nothing. If you need support or encouragement, let me know. I dont know what you should do about your marriage, but I believe we all need to connect with God in order to make the best choices in our lives. He obvious does not have intent to stop. I do want to believe him and stay with him the only thing is, Im afraid of being cheated on again. It seems like it should be the easiest decision, but its not. a few months back his fave cousin died of cancer. There is hope. It sounds like your gut instincts are telling you that something is up with your husband. One time I was at his house, and he told me to go upstairs and go lay down. We were together about a year when he left. The best way to find out if your husband is cheating. It helps to know your husband well. Found out husband had 2nd affair with same girl He begged for me to stay This was 4 years ago told and he still has not come clean He has been really sweet lately Told him I can not get past it if he cannot be open & honest Recently and in past he told he does not care how I feel Where do I go from here if not out the door Recently he, My husband cheated threw my trust right out the door It has been 4 years i told them both they could have each other. HE WILL COLLAPSE into regret eventually.I cant live without youblah, blah, blah dont fall for that either. We been together 3 years married for 2 i hate that she thinks i am cheating it i understand why she thinks that but i am not. My husband is a recovering sex addict and a recovering alcoholic. It made me so confused and depressed. All 10 resonate with me, what Im going thru. I feel hes lying to me about any type of affair w her. I found he is on hook up sites. Any advice? @ Lynn, to me it sounds like your husband has did some form of cheating, either physical or emotional, and may be reluctant to admit to everything because of fear of dealing with the damage he has caused to your marriage or losing you. What about you have you thought about talking to someone about how to cope with his cheating and lying? He did it once after a business trip, and another time when he stayed at work late. I have seen flirtations in emails to and from other women that he denies. I have been in the same relationship for over 16 years we have 3 children together 16, 11, and 6. my husband always had a very abusive personality in all senses. Yet to this day he expects me to say sorry to him for accusing him. I to prayed That The Lord would reveal to me what I needed to know! I have become very suspisious of him always calling him checking smss. Im sorry to hear that your relationship has taken this turn, and you cant trust your husbandit sounds like youre hurt and confused. A text came in on his phone that read Sorry about our fight today. So you can move on and steer clear of losers like this. Thank u very much! Big regrets. It sounds like youve been struggling with your husband for a long time, and youre confused about what to do. I found out while I was at church on Sundays he was at her house, smoking crack, helping her with bills, bringing her to the laundry matt, etc. Two months ago, I got a bad feeling in my gut, the kind I had in one past relationship where my ex cheated on me. She was also pentecostal and stopped wearing skirts, started wearing make up and cut her hair. i spent 22 years with my high school sweetheart stayed even after finding out he cheated on me with my younger sister more than one and this had happened before we were married denial seems easy and blissful but deep down it eats and eats till one day it completely destroyes u. if his cheating this early on what is it going to like in 2 years, while ur pregnant, after the baby comes these are hard times on strong faithful men, cant imagine how it would be for a weak man. Thats the question, bcause it seems like all men are cheaters! I just went through this, the only difference is that we have four kids together. Nothing against you more against them. He then told me he and a much younger friend met a couple of girls at a bar and my husband was just being the wingman for his friend. In five year with my husband , he has never said another women name, in bed while he was sleeping I asked him he said it was a nightmare and he doesnt remember the nightmare SHOULD I BE WORRIED? Hes not even close to the same height/build. (used the same name I used here sounds like a porn star right?) Where do I get the phone tracker? He gets all happy and giddy. It seems that anything that has to do to her is off limits to me including his job. But I never felt that I was being cheated until 4 months ago. The most important thing you need to do after hearing this devastating news is to find out if its definitely true. Do you need to know for sure that he might hurt you worse than he already has? Prior to our move I found out he was having another affair with a coworker who was also scheduled to go to Atlanta. and when i bring it up with him, he just says he was kidding, and that he would never cheat on me. lets say, that for what ever reason, he had sex with someone else. When I try to add him back, it just says pending on my end and that hes single. With just a few of your husbands basic details to get started, this tool can produce a wealth of information about his recent communications. I feel like if I ask for his password to check his Facebook he will immediately know what I want to look for and delete any evidence if there even is any. He has never kept anything from me before no matter what it was so I just let it go. So 3 months later, I moved out of state. Because i dont want to catch anything n i love him but i dont want to keep living like this. As a christian you should tell the truth and who know the truth may set eveyone free and you can have him. Anyway, I confronted him because it made me feel uncomfortable. I know her and never once had any thought or concern, especially since she is overweight and that is a problem for him where women are concerned. Is it me? I hope it helps. I dont know about anyone else but I find it really strange that a man in his late 50s has these 19, 21, 32 and 46 year old female friends that 1) I dont know any of them other than the 19 year old, 2) that he goes to dinner with on a regular basis and 3) is out every single night. Im so thankful that The Holy Spirit told me to check his phone. Maybe hell even hit the gym to lose those extra pounds! Successful marriages without cheating have been found to be between two people who take their vows seriously, the same way they live according to their values. Instead, remove yourself from the situation. I think most women who feel cheated, just want to know if their husband had an affair, in order to make a good decision on whether to stay or leave. I love him dearly for that.. Xoxo.. I love him with all my heart, but if there is no trust there is no life together. My husband cheats on me all the time; friends, friends of friends, friends wives/partners, doesnt matter anymore. I even saw a video chat picture of them together chatting. If you have further questions, feel free to ask! About 3 months ago(2015) on a Thursday morning at 7:50am in the morning my husbands cell phone rang while we were being intimate. We have a baby of seven months, he started cheating after the baby was three months old. If he ask you how did you know just tell him you hired a private investigator or what even but again dont reveal your source even in your friend just keep this to your self. Please help. Which tells me hes guilty. Yet he was earning nothing, in fact it was costing him to go to the office every day, money we didnt have, with a brand new baby to care for and yet as far as he is concerned, it is my fault. Im in tears typing this out because I have so much pain and I have no true compassion from him. Husbands arent appreciated at home, so they cheat. I didnt trust him he left that work place and I told him if he didnt get me the girls number then I would call his ex boss and disclose everything to him. Quite simply, the need to be right at all times is a defense mechanism. During these 2 years we were still fooling around. This is my story, why do we all stay? But we do! Our daughters age. I have been with my husband for almost 3 years, we have had our ups and downs but we still find away to work it out. Hes been on business trips alone with this woman and I dont feel comfortable with it. what do you think, could it have happend. He is always helpful when people need it, no questions asked, just does because they need help. That marriage by the way ended because my wife was sleeping with another man. When I confront him about anything, he always has an excuse. Your not only my girl, your my best friend, partner and my everything He denied that it was him and blamed his brother but this Colombian girl said his name in the texts.. bs 3. Then, believe whatever it is you think is true.and dont second guess yourself. I will never do anything like that again. at one point this article claims that 50% of men cheat at least once, and in another it says that watch who are your husbands friends, because 77% of cheating men, have cheating friends), well, if he has 2 friends, than the first line covers that, so theres no big deal here. Women who are dissatisfied with their relationship are more than twice as likely to cheat; those who feel they are sexually incompatible with their partners are nearly three times as likely. I looked through the cell phone company and noticed a particular phone number repeating everyday. Our sex life is non-existent. Family, few close friends and of course my husband. Part 4: Failure to Grieve. Even worse is that the authorities didnt believe you; instead they believed your lying husband. I havent withdrawn the papers yet, but I dont want a divorce. Hes been very angry lately with us. She was just someone he got on with. Not only that, he risked your health too. My fiancee is cheating me with his so called ex wife. He knows I know. I want to believe he still loves me but it is really hard. this set off many alarms. He was very defensive and didnt apologize for worrying me until the end of our conversation. We dont spend a whole lot of time together because of his job and the kids activities plus I work full time job. Signs your relationship is over, plus help deciding how to move on after a breakup. I got married 2 yrs ago. What does your gut tell you about your boyfriend? Luckily the woman didnt respond to my husbands messages. Is he cheating on me? He begged I stayed but he still is lying about it He has been extra sweet I said if he would be honest I could get past it but just recently I asked him to be honest so I could trust him he jumped up & replied I DONT CARE What option does that leave me. one day while he was drunk i copied his password so that day i open his phone and i could not believe of what i saw. Then a couple of months ago i once again found a number on his phone and i called it and a women answered and she said it was her sons phone bla bla bla , I also found numbers of escort services and he said that the guys at work told him that if you called them they send you pics of themselves. He stays alone, I stay alone and the ex stays with their 2 kids. He says it was just to look but I told him how hurtful it was and he agreed not to visit the site. Meanwhile I found out he joined a singles club and I dont know how long he has been part of this club. Very unfortunate. Hmmm , i find bs. Constantly trying to make up for his mistakes and telling me he loves me everyday and that hasnt changed but a week ago I seen some disturbing texts between him and his fast friend concerning a females number and her calling my husband that Sunday night on his cell.we had made plans to spend that Sunday together but he never came home from work that morning we he finally called he said he was taking a Co worker to a pet store in another town and then to a second town anyway he never comes home all night.next day when I confront him he blows up and we argue for two days and hes constantly been hanging out at night and I just dont know which way to go anymore my heart is in many pieces I try to trust but my heart cant my stomach turns at the thought I just cant go through the past again I need serious help I have no strength left. His age, birthdate, city of residence and height/build. It hit me straight in my stomach. What does your gut tell you about his behavior? I do go threw hos emails and txt when i can ive also caught him talking to some girl about how he really did love her and what they use to do in dressing rooms and stuff. Sometimes, he looks me in the eyes, with tears in his, and tells me that Im his entire life and he would never cheat on me. Which i know is a lie because she thought i was him. Something still feels off, though, and there's a reason for thatdeep down, you know that he's cheating. however when I filed for divorce everything turned against me. I hoped if I did not confront him, and just asked him about the clothes, the truth would come out. TThis IS also deceptive but where the trust, respect, is already broken, I figure its all fair game. None of you are crazy, nor do you deserve to be subjected to this horrible betrayalstop taking it as a way to measure your worth! I just want him to be honest with me. If you suspect your husband is cheating on you and lying about it, why dont you leave him? A lot of science goes into the nature of how we think as a gender but its not that complicated. INTRESR COMPLETELY LOST. I was sexually abused for 5 years of my childhood. He would see his friends maybe once a week and this was enoughThese past few months he has been spending a lot more time then usual with his mates (maybe four times a week now) and when I have told him off about it he basically tells me to accept it or find someone else which is a totally different approach then what he would usually take.. A lot of new young girls have been hanging around his friends house as well because his little sister (who lives there also) just turned 18. Why? Your venting helped me put the missing pieces together. Its his king Baby having a self-pitious tantrum.til he gets his way again. We split up for over a month 2 this day I do not no were he stayed during that time we moved he started staying gone from 4 am until 2 in the afternoon with his buddy leaving me alone I address how lonely I was but still continued to leave me alone I go to jail he moves out the next day and into his buddies home who he shared with another woman he never came to see me left me 13 dollars in 32 days and took 4 calls just a couple days before I got out. It seems to me the unpaid labour of a year was an affair. You are to good to spend your life being lied to he has broken his vows to you on more then one occasion. He is also the first guy Ive ever opened up to about my childhood. I have been with him through his drug addiction, his alcholism, and through all the mental abuse. That you are nuts? He has a lack in the bedroom. I feel like our stories have so many similarities. As long as they deny it, they put you in a position where if you leave them for it you're being the bad guy by being 'paranoid'. This isnt your fault he is either an addict or He has been doing it his entire life. I was always the one holding it all together. We went to our first appointment and he blamed most of his feelings on me and still denied the affair..with a lot of reading and research I decided to check our phone bill that is when everything came out, I found he had been calling the OW as many as 10 times a day. I heard how much he had changed and wanted to plan a happy retirement and travel for the rest of time we had left. He right away directs anger to me for even mentioning it. He was out of town and called me crying because she was filing for divorce but he wasnt sure that was what he wanted. When women suspect their man is cheating, the first mistake they make is launching a fact-finding mission. I swear he is a pathological lier . However I still think they slept together but just get the real truth out of him. Husbands generally do not want to cheat, the vast majority of husbands seeking sex outside of their marriage are driven to it. Space Is Limited! Thinking & working my mind to mush. The thing is that they will lie, deny and push you away. Work at it because there are children involved but dont put up with him if he is blatantly sh**ting on u and u cant work it out as that wont help ur kids but make them as tense and upset as u instead, good luck xxx, I dont normally comment in internet sites but sweetie you dimply have to leave him right away, itll be hard at first because you evidently love him but I promise itll get easier. And it hurts to be slapped in the face with this realism. Thinks we can work on this together and tells me that I can go if I want to. I am 47 years old and this is only the 3rd infection in my life. What should I do? 7 Reasons Why Your Boyfriend Stopped Calling and Texting, Is Your Husband Using Facebook to Cheat on You? Be very careful who you trust. ive told him it makes me uncomfortable but he says n acts as if he doesnt care or tells me i dont trust him. Coz I feel as if I know you. He lies to me about everything he has a past of heroin use I fear hes using again. This is not the first time that Ive caught him texting/ flirting with other women. If he disrespects you, that is his bad and in him. Finally I entered another relationship big surprise whammy !!! I was sickened that he was with us both in the same day. Three kids. When I nag, then he buys me things. I have noticed though every time he shows up late from poker so he says that is what he is doingand it is anytime past midnight that he comes home he tries to sleep with me.of course he knows Im upset everytime he shows up late but Im so confused I dont know if he is having less sex with me because of his weed he smokes or his lack of sleep when he is at home and goes to bed late all the time or he watches to much bad stuff? I in therapyAs far as I know the wife still with him, knowing he cheats. I said, she deserves better than you and so do I.. Im done with these games. I cant predict if your husband will cheat on you, or lie to you. Jan, If you happen to see this Id LOVE the link to that motivation video. Power, opportunity, money increases testosterone. I know it feels like your world is ending .. back to the women who messaged you she wants your life she is jellouse . So over the weekend we went out with friends and this certain young lady was there. The only time he ever talks to me to holds me is when he wants sex..hes changed his email passwords, facebook, and wont let me go thru his phoneim scared hes cheating but I also dont want to be overly sensitive and blow things out of porportion just because my ex hurt me. hi there. am in doubt whether he s havng any affair.. how to find out. My husband have been cheating on me every since I married him. I called both ladies and turns out he was having affairs with both women at the same time. Found that out cause of the phone bill. I pourposefully left the app open so hed know I looked in it. One night at a bar we were all outside on the patio when I noticed them gone, went inside, they were dancing she had her backside to him and he was grinding all over her. He was secretive with his emails and phone. All different types of things. Im in constant pain. I finally took the kids and left first of March. I have no access to our money, phone bills only brings home credit card bills that I use , he had several others. This will also give you the opportunity to reflect on anything you might have changed about your marriage if you had a second chance. I hope you two got counseling. He apologized, said he doesnt want to date her or anyone other than me and that he will stop talking to her and make it clear that nothing will happen. I looked at him and with a heavy heart I said okay. I wasted the best years of my life on an alcoholic piece of sh*t that could care less about me, even though i supported him financially, fed him, clothed him. I bbmed him again and told him, why is the history clear if your not hiding anything from me, if you did what i think you did, I hate you. I dont know if your husband is lying about cheating, but I do know that we can sabotage our marriages by being suspicious and jealous. I hope you have family close who can help you make a new start. It shows weak character. Just as I am writing i am thinking of dropping the relationship coz I have a feeling I might not win this though i love him so much. Please understand. What I dont get is if hes not married and cares about her why dose he not break off the marriage? Rebuilding trust is possible but involves a lot of work if the husband is willing to take responsibility (not blaming it on genes) and explain how and why he did it in the first place. When I first confronted him he said she was a lesbian, but i found a text message he failed to delete that said I LOVE YOU. I am pregnant again, and my husband insists we use condoms. https://theadventurouswriter.com/quipstipsrelationships/is-your-spouse-cheating-stds/. He never shows affection to me in public. He lied to your face about it, which is just as bad. I dont know if your husband is cheating but I tend to agree with you, that you may be overthinking things. 1)He is not interested in physical intimacy as he was before, 2)He avoids physical and emotional contact, 4)He picks fights or start arguments with you, You poor thing :( Ive just had a baby and to be told I know u get paranoid when ur pregnant just makes u paranoid its a bit insensitive if u ask me. He sent a text so i got to see it. I ask him how many woman, who, where, and how because he is always home. He confused real friendship with time. Thats great that she can talk to you about her husband, but it must be hard for you to not know how to help her. Should I be suspicious that he is chatting with someone else and doesnt want it showing up on our bill? Him it makes me think i should get a divorce and i dont know if your Using. This out because i dont know how long he has been doing his., but the actions and lack of sex and emotions says it was and agreed. 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